My Adventures In: Figuring out what I am up to.

I don't really know where to start here(other than the very vague or pointed posts already here), primarily because this is a public forum and I want to be honest. I ALSO want to speak in code. There are Ex's and employers and old friends who may get upset and new friends who may get offended, and people thinking they are other people, and kids not wanting the whole world to know their struggles and ...........STOP.

So I will say what I have to say. I intend to share this stuff here. I don't care about money or fame, but I do want to share an experience or two that might help someone else. Eventually, I would like to write a book or three or 20. Who knows...

I also have some pretty opinionated things to say. I don't want to fight or argue, but a good, healthy and heated discussion?... Bring it on!

So here are the NEW details and rules of this blog.

1.If you want to be rude, go somewhere else. We won't react, we'll just delete your comments and move on.

2.This is me. If you don't like what I say, read someone else's blog. Someone you do like. I don't care, it won't hurt my feelings. :)

3.Everyone gets to have an opinion. Period. Unless rule 1 applies, leave them be. I want the feedback, and the "good, healthy and heated discussions", remember?

4.If you know me, us, who I am talking about, who I am referring to etc.,please don't share. My children are CBear and McGrutter. Please use those names so they don't feel invaded on.

5.If something upsets you, ASK about it. It probably isn't you I am talking about. If it is, I will tell you. The point of this blog isn't who did what, but HOW it effected ME and what I am going to do/have done/didn't do/handled incorrectly.

So, as I go forward, take what you will from this. If it bites me in the butt, well then I suppose that is just another challenge I'll get to deal with. I'm no longer ok with hiding in a corner, hoping not to hurt feelings, or cause upset, or lose an opportunity because an employer doesn't agree with my thoughts.

Here's to it! *jump*